What Is a Pleasure-First Life? And Why Every Woman Deserves It
What Is a Pleasure-First Life? And Why Every Woman Deserves It
What Is a Pleasure-First Life? And Why Every Woman Deserves It
How to Have the Envy-Worthy Pleasure-First Life You’ve Always Deserved
What if pleasure wasn’t an afterthought but the foundation of your life?
For too long, women have been conditioned to see pleasure as a luxury, something extra, something we “earn” after we’ve checked every box on the to-do list. Work, family, relationships, caregiving, responsibilities—we’re taught to prioritize everything but ourselves.
QUIVR women reject that outdated belief.
We believe that pleasure isn’t just a reward; it’s a right.
A Pleasure-First Life is a philosophy, a practice, and a movement. It’s about reclaiming pleasure, confidence, sensuality, and autonomy in every aspect of life—from the boardroom to the bedroom.
What Does It Mean to Live a Pleasure-First Life?
Living a pleasure-first life means making decisions that center your joy, wellness, and fulfillment. It means understanding that pleasure isn’t just about sex (though that’s our favorite part of it!)—it’s about a fully embodied, authentic, and liberated way of living.
A pleasure-first life is:
- Tuning Into Your Desires – What do you want? Not what society tells you to want, but what truly ignites your joy? If nobody was looking, what would you do? (psst…by the way, nobody is looking)
- Embracing Sensory Pleasure – From the way you sip your morning coffee to how you feel in your skin, pleasure exists in every moment.
- Rejecting Shame & Guilt – Women have been conditioned to suppress pleasure. A pleasure-first life means unlearning that and stepping into unapologetic self-acceptance.
- Owning Your Power in Relationships – Communicating needs, setting boundaries, and demanding reciprocity—because pleasure is about mutual fulfillment.
- Prioritizing Joy Beyond Productivity – You are not just what you accomplish. Your value isn’t tied to how much you do. You deserve pleasure simply because you exist.
Why Pleasure Is at the Heart of QUIVR
QUIVR was built on one core belief: every woman, everywhere deserves informed pleasure.
- Because too many of us were never taught how to prioritize our pleasure.
- Women’s pleasure, especially sexual pleasure, has been controlled, stigmatized, and dismissed for centuries.
- Because pleasure isn’t just physical; it’s mental, emotional, and deeply tied to our well-being.
QUIVR we creates spaces where women can learn, explore, and reclaim their pleasure-first lives without judgment. Whether it’s through community discussions, coaching, or education, we’re here to help women reconnect with their bodies, desires, and power.
The 7 Principles of a Pleasure-First Life
QUIVR’s approach to pleasure is based on seven core principles that guide our community and teachings:
Self-Exploration: Understanding your needs, desires, and boundaries.
Mind-Body Connection: Tuning into physical and emotional sensations to experience life fully.
Confidence & Expression: Embracing your pleasure without shame or apology.
Emotional & Sensual Intelligence: Recognizing that emotions and intimacy are deeply connected.
Curiosity & Playfulness: Bringing a sense of adventure into pleasure, intimacy, and life.
Self-Care as a Non-Negotiable: Making pleasure a part of your daily wellness routine.
Community & Sisterhood: Knowing that pleasure thrives in spaces where women uplift and support one another.
Why Women Deserve Informed Pleasure
We don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all approach to pleasure. Informed pleasure means understanding yourself, your desires, and your options so you can make empowered choices that align with you.
Knowledge is Power: Women who are educated about their bodies, sexuality, and emotional needs experience more fulfilling lives and relationships.
Pleasure is Self-Care: Studies show that prioritizing pleasure reduces stress, improves mood, and even enhances overall health (yes, pleasure is medicine!).
Pleasure is a Radical Act: In a world that often demands women put themselves last, choosing pleasure is an act of rebellion—and an act of self-love.
How to Start Living a Pleasure-First Life Today
Pause & Ask Yourself: What brings me joy? Find one small way to incorporate pleasure into your daily routine—whether it’s a slow morning stretch, a delicious meal, or a moment of stillness.
Get Curious: Read, listen, and explore! QUIVR’s community is full of resources to help you reconnect with yourself.
Join the Conversation: Our Sister Circle on March 15th is the perfect space to connect with like-minded women who embrace a pleasure-first life.
Give Yourself Permission: You don’t need to “earn” pleasure. You are worthy of it, right now.
Are You Ready to Say Yes to More Pleasure?
QUIVR is more than a brand—it’s a movement. It’s a call to every woman who has ever put herself last. It’s a reminder that you deserve joy, confidence, and fulfillment in every aspect of your life.
Join us. Prioritize yourself. And start living your pleasure-first life.
JOIN US: Thursday, November 21, 2024 - 7PM-11PM
INVISIBLE CITY IN DENVER - 941 Santa Fe Dr - 80204
Eden Unbound is inspired by a provocative question: What if Eve ate the apple and, instead of chaos, everything went right?
Imagine a world where pleasure is at the heart of life, where women’s sensuality is celebrated and respected.
This event, QUIVR's vision brought to life, offers a re-imagined Garden of Eden—a space where art, pleasure, and empowerment meet in harmony.
This unique experience is a marriage of art, pleasure, and education. QUIVR’s Eden Unbound isn’t just an event; it’s an invitation to explore sensuality, expression, and community in a space designed to celebrate every facet of femininity.
Eden Unbound will feature a series of immersive experiences that engage the senses and celebrate self-expression. The evening will include:
Self-Body Painting Workshop: Attendees are invited to explore their own body’s contours and celebrate their forms through self-guided body mapping, an activity designed to deepen self-awareness and body confidence.
Sensual Movement Session: Led by a skilled instructor, this dance workshop encourages participants to embrace movement as a powerful form of self-expression, helping them reconnect with their bodies in a joyful and uninhibited way.
Paint & Sip with a Nude Model: Combining art with playfulness, this activity allows guests to create art with a live model, honoring the beauty of the human form while indulging in a relaxed, creative environment.